Which band should i choose?

3 weeks ago i was talking to my bff & shetold me that i should join her & this girl who r trying 2 start a band.well now we are a band & i came up w/ the name-along with this other girl, "Jessica", whom i cant stand-shes too touchy-feely.they didnt ask me how i felt about her joining.i talked to one of my guy-friends-"Mark" & he said that i should talk to them.then i talked 2 another 1 of my bffs, "Brittany" & she said the same thing & also that i could start a band with "Mark" & this guy that we all know, "Craig". that would be awesome!! they listen to rock IK 4 a fact & so do i, so it works! & ive always liked rock, my fav band of all time is KORN!! ive always waited for this oppurtunity & now i have it but idk what to do. my 1st band of girls(except "Jessica")are like my bffs & i dont want them to get mad at me for starting another band so my main question is WHAT DO I DO?? do i start a diff band with "Craig" & "Mark"? wouldnt that be wrong tho? the word BETRAYAL comes 2 mind. :(