Once a long and painful divorce has been threatened, can a marriage be saved?

Get far, farrrrrrrrrrrr away from this idiot! He sounds controlling, vindictive and scary. He could do all sorts of things (ruin your credit, stalk you, cause problems at your work, etc.) Hopefully, he is just mouthing off and doesn't mean to harm you. Having said that, I have been harmed by someone doing just that. The bottom line is: Why would you ever want to be with anyone like that at all? Don't hesitate to get a restraining order if necessary! LET YOUR ATTORNEY handle ANY and ALL communication with the idiot. Don't give your ex any fuel for his fire!! Best wishes!